小孩子才要搞清楚什么是出轨什么是忠贞，成年人会思考自己言行对别人带来了什么影响。小孩子才要搞清楚定义，成年人在乎的是结果和影响。说到底，搞清楚规则和定义往往是为了在游戏规则的线里越玩越大。

Finite players play within boundaries, infinite players play with boundaries.

问题是，你把感情看做是一个有限的游戏还是一个无限的游戏？A finite game is played for the purpose of winning, an infinite game for the purpose of continuing the play.

Previously: Finite and Infinite Games, Revisited